On David McDonald‘s blog, I wrote a post about the debts I’ve paid to become a writer. I hope that by sharing my story, it will help other writers who have experienced something similar, understand and take comfort in the fact that you are not alone. Paying for My Passion (Valentinelli) is the kind of post that’s both personal and cathartic to write, but I feel that it was an important exercise for both me and you. You see, the one thing I’ve learned throughout all of my experiences, is that there’s a difference between feeling alone and being alone. Abusers in any form, whether they be domestic or not, focus on isolation as a means of control.
For writers like myself, who are naturally introverted to varying degrees, this can be disastrous to our psyches. I need to recharge my creative batteries by spending time by myself, but at the same time, it was hugely important for me to understand I wasn’t alone in my experiences. They are two, very different things, and I fear that sometimes the nuances are conflated simply because when you’re an introvert you’re already told spending time by yourself, whether that’s going it alone to a movie or a coffee shop, is “anti-social”.
If my post resonates with your experiences on any level, I want you to know that I support you. I do. Being a writer is both a curse and a blessing, especially in this society; the ability to tell stories and use words to relay information is a gift we have, but at the same time? We all need to eat.
- Mood: Focused
Caffeinated Beverages Consumed: I cannot admit the amount of caffeine in my system
Work-Out Minutes Logged Yesterday: Well, I thought about it
In My Ears: Soundtrack for Star Wars. No, not THAT Star Wars, the other… Never mind.
Game Last Played: Final Fantasy X
Book Last Read: Reading like a crazy woman… I should really track these better.
Movie/TV Show Last Viewed: Lucifer
Latest Artistic Project: Pain-in-the-butt ombre earrings.
Latest Fiction/Comic Release: Gods, Memes, and Monsters and Firefly: The Gorramn Shiniest Language Guide and Dictionary in the ‘Verse.
Latest Game Release: Codex Infernus: The Savage Guide to Hell.
Current State of Projects: Read my latest (woefully outdated) project update and My Departure from the Conan RPG.